I think one of the most tragic places you could ever visit is a cemetery, not because of the people who are buried there but because of what is buried within the people who are buried there: books and songs that were never written, sermons that were never preached, forgiveness that was never granted, inventions that were never developed— so much potential that was never realised.
So much has been buried and lost for all of eternity because someone was afraid of being hurt, afraid of criticism, afraid of rejection, afraid of financial difficulty or even physical danger.
Evangelist Leonard Ravenhill said author and preacher A. W. Tozer once told him, “I’m not too worried about the judgement on my Christian life. It’s the things I could have done but didn’t do that worry me.” My friends, one day we are all going to stand before the Master and give an account of what He has entrusted to us. Oh, that we would fear that day above all and be willing to risk everything so on that day we would not be ashamed.
Notice that the servant was cast into outer darkness where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.
Scholars disagree about whether or not this verse is referring to hell, but one thing is certain (and I think it is the main point), it is talking about deep regret, sorrow, and remorse over something that has been lost forever and can never be undone. Many people talk about the emotions they will feel when they arrive in heaven.
There are popular songs about how we will dance and be overwhelmed with joy. But many will experience a very different emotion when they arrive in heaven—regret. In that moment all of their earthly fears will seem so impotent and distant, a hazy memory, like a dream that you can’t quite remember. But the impact of those fears will be felt for eternity.
It will be too late to go back and do what should have been done, and wave after wave of regret will wash over many people. No wonder Revelation 21:4 says Jesus will have to wipe the tears from their eyes.